Difficulties are part of life.
But when they occur in a relationship, it is very important to react and deal with them correctly.
Know – there is always a way out.
For this, today I will tell you why there are problems and how to deal with them, so that you can easily save your relationship.
If something causes suspicion – just ask. Even if they turn out to be in vain, then you will see it, but you will not come up with it.
Remember, life becomes easier when you stop worrying about things that are not worthy.
Such simple words, such as “thank you” and “I appreciate” will allow a man to feel that you need him.
Learn to communicate
Break away from the aimless update of the news tape and invite him on a date. Yes, you heard correctly – take the initiative in your own hands, for a while.
Do not just visit the theater, but definitely discuss the performance. Talking is a kind of intimacy that makes us closer.
If you are accustomed to communicate in elevated tones, then going to a park or restaurant will teach you to restrain negative emotions. And distract from everyday problems and bad mood.
Set some rules for yourself. Do not interrupt and forever forget about the phrases “you always …” or “you never …”.
Words can hurt, and men are no exception. And women during a quarrel can use all kinds of verbal weapons.
Use body language. Men want to be heard and listened to – nod during conversation, look into his eyes, smile.
As women remember uneducated roses, so men remember the unheard conversations .
Get rid of misunderstandings in bed
Partners have different views on intimate life. Someone as strongly as in the “50 shades”, someone quite insignificant, but the fact remains – the lack of sexual identity and education exacerbates problems in the relationship.
You now can be surprised, but sex on schedule increases his expectation. Sunday sex? Why not!
And do not necessarily do it on the bed: gathered for a weekend in the forest with tents, Sunday caught you in the kitchen, drove by car for shopping? Love is good in all its manifestations.
Together, create a “list of sexual desires” and step by step implement them.
Do not forget that relations are built on three pillars: respect, trust, intimacy .
Although the proverb says that “money is not happiness,” but in practice the financial aspect has a very strong effect on relations. So always be honest about your current monetary situation.
You do not work? A normal man can always support and help you find yourself.
Do you have a business? A man will be proud of you, and your independence will never alienate him.
Put goals together and achieve them. Develop as individuals and as a couple.
Distribute household duties
Most partners work outside the home, and often not in the same job. Therefore, it is very important to divide the household affairs fairly.
Once and for all – you should not do everything yourself! A man is looking for a woman, not a housewife.
If one of you likes to cook, then let the partner wash the dishes.
Look for compromises and take into account each other’s preferences.
Do not put the man in first place
One of the main rules that helps build a strong relationship. And, in my opinion, the most ignored.
Remember: what direction you initially ask relationships, so they will develop.
Do what used to do before your acquaintance: engage in photography, meet with friends on Thursdays, attend your favorite pursuits.
And never think that now there is no time for this or it is superfluous.
A worthy man will always be glad that you have a life outside relationships.
Solve problems, but do not let them go with the flow
Random conflicts are an integral part of life, but if everything is repeated daily as in the film “Groundhog Day,” it’s time to free yourself from what is poisoning life.
A little effort, and you will learn without anger soberly to look at the situation.
Remember – no one is a victim. It’s your choice, and it’s up to you how you react.
You do not have to answer me, but be honest with yourself – in the midst of a quarrel, are your comments aimed at resolving the conflict or on the partner’s weaknesses?
If the latter, then it does not help to strengthen relations. I advise you to take a deep breath and change your strategy.
My advice to you – instead of defending yourself before the partner has finished speaking, wait a few minutes. I assure you, the tone of the conversation will change for the better.
Apologize if it’s wrong.!
Yes, it’s hard. But removes the cargo from the shoulders.
A decent man immediately sees that you can seriously regard it.