So? are you a wife or a husband?
Well, whoever you are we are going to share these top 5 things which every wife may hide from her husband and you should read them.
As soon as you bind yourself by the bonds of marriage, ideally everything becomes common to you – not only material things but also the details of your life.
However, most women have at least a few problems that they will never share with the chosen one (even under torture).
Should they still open or continue to keep silent?
If you are in doubt then you can scroll down and start reading these things.
1. Health problems
If a woman discovers something suspicious in her health (such as a tightness in her chest), she can tell her mother, but not her husband. Psychologists say that women hide anxiety from their husbands in order to protect them from stress, reduce it. However, when you force a mother to keep a problem in secret – this is also not the best solution because this problem will not reduce.
At the same time, you close your husband, who is quite capable at the right time to provide the necessary support. After all, each deserves a shoulder, which you can rely on in a difficult moment, and marriage itself already presupposes such support.
2. Problems in relations
Quarrels, disappointments, domestic disputes (where and how to live, how to raise children) – if something of this excites a woman, she often is silent.
The maximum will go to solve problems to a psychologist – one. According to statistics, so does a fairly large number of ladies. At the same time, their goal is to decide whether to maintain such a relationship or not.
Perhaps you will come to the right decision on your own, but it is still better than your husband is aware of what’s bothering you and could influence you in the same way with the fate of the relationship. Even if you alone consult a psychologist, dedicate your spouse to what happens during these conversations.
3. Sexual preferences
Psychologists and sexologists know a lot of women who complain about their dissatisfaction in bed. At the same time, they are afraid to tell their husbands that they are not satisfied with everything, considering that this can hurt their feelings.
The advice of a psychologist – to discuss such things first of all outside the bedroom, slowly and calmly, it is necessary to tell not only about what you do not like but also to emphasize what you like.
4. Career successes
Surprisingly, women are less sloping when they come home, talk about their successes at work. They do not do this not to emphasize and not to increase the difference between themselves and the spouse and not to minimize the male’s dominant role.
Yes, some men really do not want their woman to be smarter and more successful than them. But not all. The right man will not criticize you for personal successes, in order to disguise thus lowering your own self-esteem.
5. Personal Finance
Women hide details of personal finances for various reasons, but, as a rule, mothers teach them this. “The Golden Maternity Rule” – always have a monetary stash in case the relationship suddenly ends.
Perhaps it can give a sense of security, but if your spouse finds out about such a stash, he may think that you are already preparing for a divorce.
One small secret in his thoughts will entail much larger and unpleasant consequences, so it is better to weigh all the possible consequences in advance.
Of course, it is not necessary to tell your spouse everything, if you need it to preserve self-esteem.
And yet some secrets can affect the trust of your husband and your marriage.
So if there is an opportunity to share something, maybe you should be braver?
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