Often a woman thinks that a relationship with a man is a panacea for all problems. She is so desperately seeking love, that she forgets the main thing – herself.
Such a woman becomes fresh and uninteresting for a real man. Believe me, I know what I’m talking about as a man, and as an expert in the psychology of relationships and the author of a successful guidelines for women .
Let’s figure out what prevents you from building a harmonious relationship with a man.
You are unhappy
“If you are unhappy with yourself , you will not be happy with someone. Happiness comes from within, not from men ”
When you feel unhappy and unhappy, you easily blame it on the lack of relationships . And you think that when you find a great guy – life will be fine. Unfortunately, this will not happen. Of course, at first you will be happy, but not for long. Happiness is not what you get in a relationship. This is what you bring into them, so that they are harmonious and long.
Constantly to be happy is not easy, we must work on happiness. Develop, communicate with friends, practice your favorite hobby.
An unhappy woman attracts completely different men who will make her happy. Quite the contrary.
In your life the same situations are repeated
“If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got”
If the same unpleasant story repeats itself in your life, dear, then you are doing something wrong. This is a sign – you need to change something.
Do you recognize yourself? Maybe you go on a date with a nice and nice man, but you do not give him a chance either, because he did not “hook”. But that “beggar” won with a half-word. But only then nothing with “your ideal” does not add up. And it repeats itself: you do not notice worthy men, and “sad” copies and beckon.
It’s time to wake up and work on your inner self. Understand what is happening so that more of these stories do not recur. When you change your behavior, you will be able to build a successful relationship with a worthy man.
Do you still think about the former
“Remember that you will not be able to get what lies ahead until you let go of what’s left behind”
Many women do not know how to let go of past relationships , because of this they do not develop with new men. They can go on dates to annoy their former lover. Or just idealize it on a subconscious level and look for it like that.
But if the former did not work, why look for the same?
Do not let past attitudes prevent you from looking to the future. Say goodbye to the past, put all the points above the “and”, build a new relationship.
You built a wall around you
“People are alone, because they build walls instead of bridges”
You can close from everyone and think that you will be safe and you will avoid bad relationships. But by closing from the bad, you close yourself and from the good.
If you are emotionally unavailable, you are unconsciously looking for men who will be emotionally accessible to you. Such relationships are doomed, because you will prove to be too different. The partner will not be able to reveal you and you will remain behind your wall.
Believe me, I know how hard it is to be vulnerable, deceived and trampled. But you can build strong relationships only when you open your heart. And you will learn to give joy and love.
You are in despair
“You do not have to fight for someone’s love. You do not have to force the other to change yourself. True love will allow you to remain yourself ”
If you step over yourself, break yourself and your life for the sake of a man – it’s a red flag! So you lose yourself real, and soon you will lose a man. I know for sure that you will not be able to relax in a relationship where you need to constantly monitor your behavior.
Of course, you need to try to be the best, take care of yourself. But for myself, but not for another person. Therefore , if you feel that you can not be in a relationship, this is not your relationship. A man will love you as long as you love yourself.
If you found these signs in yourself, then you are not yet ready for a full relationship. But everything is fixable. And then you need to work on yourself.
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Another advice from me personally, pay attention to online dating. This is a great tool if you really want to close the question for yourself, how to stop being without a relationship.